Wednesday 29 February 2012

Sixpence-Katherine Mansfield

This story had such an impact on me as it made me recall my childhood of when I to was mistreated in someway for being a naughty child. I was so fascinated and envious of the reaction in Mr Bendall as he had regretted so much about the beating he'd done. This is because I for one had thought every parent would fully put their resolve and utter most consideration when deciding to beat their child since it leaves very big emotional/physical effects on the child. 
It also made me think that these parent had no idea what they were doing or how to parent and I realized this is the case for most, in fact all parents. Parenting is like drawing a dog with a pen- you have one shot to create something and even though the dog turns out to have one eye and five legs because of you, it cannot be undone. You can read books on how to parent your child, seek advice but coincidentally your child will be brought up by how the parent wants them to be. The fact that every parent, (including Mr/Mrs Bendall) were beginners in parenting did arouse some sympathy towards them, especially Mrs Bendall who seemed to put a lot thought into whether to beat her child or not- but is later perceived as an easily influenced, unopinioned woman towards the end as she nags to her husband of how she cannot "control" her child.

I also thought the contrast between Mrs Spencer's children and Mrs Bendall's was foreshadowing what would or might have become of Dicky when he is whipped or if he was continually disciplined in such manner. seeking obedience from fear- I think is a theme in this story and a way of Katherine showing us the unhealthy nature of whipping as it cripples the child physically and mentally. I would thingk in terms of 'crippling'  Mrs Spencer's children are the crippled and Dicky crippling. Mrs Spencer's children are crippled in a way mentally where they are restricted in their actions out of fear of doing the wrong things and getting beaten. We are shown evidence of this as we see how they try to minimize their noise when playing in the presence of adults "... never would have known that there was a child in the house" out of fear of a beating. I contrast Dicky is portrayed as the full embodiment of a boisterous, vibrant child and the only difference shown between the boys is the fact that Dicky wasn't beaten unlike Mrs Spencer's boys. This one differences which manipulate the child's actions and personality emphasized the importance and destructive nature of a beating. In Dicky's very first beating we are shown the effects of using violence to induce obedience-humiliation, pain, and fear that is installed in him as he stutters over his words,being unable to speak his mind due to fear. Further and further Dicky closes his mind/opinions from his parents- first whispering “Must I?” he whispered", barely voicing out his opinions then not saying them at all-“Nothing the matter, little chap, is there?” said Edward... “No-o, Daddy,” came from Dicky"-scared if his true opinions may cause further conflict,anger, and  another possible beating, Dicky dosn't voice his opinions and instead lies.
In adult eyes Mrs Spencer's children are seen as "perfect little models... Quieter, better-behaved little boys." however to me they seemed deprived of childhood and freedom. They did not seem to be able to play or have fun rather they chose the right thing over the fun thing e.g. playing quietly in the house as to not disturb the adults. Ultimately we see the little boys being bound by their fear and pain from the beatings that they dare not make any noise; so much that they are thought to be non-existent in the house by the adults. If the children had been taught without the inducing of fear, both parents and child could have enjoyed themselves in their presence.  I thought on this further, and concluded that children should have the special privilege of having the capability of being irresponsible/ make mistakes without harsh consequence (most of the time/more than adults at least) because they will be unable to do so once they become adults. Adults must realize there are responsibilities and standards which are needed to be kept in order to be seen as a proper adult. This ultimately influences us to choose the 'right decisions' (most of the time) without encouragement or beatings since the consequences of breaking these standards are severe e.g. jail, unemployment, unable to enter university, etc. 
I was also shocked at the difference of culture between the European and Asian ways of punishing your child and also the opinions of my European class mates compared to mine. In Asia it is not considered so shocking to beat your child- in fact a mere beating with a slipper would hardly be considered as serious punishment. However the fact that Mrs/Mr Bendall had never hit Dicky, how she had fretted over it, and how she did not punish Dicky herself seemed very irresponsible, with no resolve to punish him seriously herself. Mr and Mrs Bendall made me think that they weren't good at parenting and had only decided to beat Dicky because of their own frustrations/annoyance at him/tiredness rather than for Dickys sake- making him into a happy/responsible child; which is selfish. 
What was more surprising was my class mates and my teachers reactions to this beating which they claimed to be just awful and terrible- which is how the beating is portrayed in the story. As they talked about the beating they would make a cringing or rather pitying/sympathetic face/tone which is normal-( I too feel sorry for Dicky's pain) but when I dismissed the overpowering adjectives that made the beating all the more so horrible, I was annoyed at how they thought this act so so terrible when in fact, compared to an Asian upbringing which is much worse, humiliating and strict. The more I thought about it the more I felt they/and Katherine's view/portrayal to be overly sensitive and exaggerating the pain of Dicky. This is because in my point of view it seemed that they were accusing cruelty about such minor punishments (compared to Asian punishments) that are far worse or 'scarring'. This lead me to believe most people in my class room hadn't experienced that kind of hardship and so for them this kind of punishment was severe which was understandable. I also thought it was unfair how they could so easily say that Dicky's punishment were hardships and that it were cruel- because there are much much more cruel things that Asian people go through without complaints and without being given sympathy so I wanted to say to Katherine Mansfield to toughen up a bit on her views. haha.
However I really liked this story as it had quite complex meanings to it that seemed very true, especially the effects on a child from corporal punishment. I think she portrayed the feelings and consequences of the beating very accurately/realistically which was all the more easier to emphasis with (with Dicky or Mr/Mrs Bundall, depending on if you are a child, father or mother). I love how it deals with current issues since it sends out a powerful message to the readers and parents. 

Wednesday 8 February 2012

Our Common Lives by Jisoo Kim

I slump on the soppy grounds
as the mud soaks into my feeble
rag, which harden in the gust.
It clings stickily onto my
painfully starved skin, spewing with
produced sharp ribs.
My raw and naked feet are crusted
and cracking at the souls. My hands
clutch the rusted tin-can on a
prostrate arm.
My mouth opens to wail.
My eyes are dark wells of defeat.
I am dying.
The grubby sky, ground, sides
are cropped-4x4cm.
But your eyes scan by, apathetic.
Flipping the page of my plea-
you gasp in alarm at the
Steve Jobs death column.

By Jisoo Kim
Inspired by the poem 'Photograph of a Girl' by Sharen Olds

I Go Back to May 1937 - Sharon Olds




Olds was born on the 19th of November, 1942, in San Francisco, California. She graduated from Stanford University with her bachelor's degree in 1964 and with her Ph.D. from Columbia University in 1972. Since then she has become known world-wide with her fabulous, emotive poetry- winning her awards such as the National Book Critics Circle Award and the San Francisco Poetry Centre Award.

 "Olds is known for writing intensely personal, emotionally scathing poetry which graphically depicts family life as well as global political events"

- I just thought the diction of this quote was quite impressive that I had this sudden urge to copy and paste. But yes, she does seem to be well-known for her confessional poetry and free verse writing along with her erotic/sensual works as well. Her themes and ideas are simple/ordinary yet powerful due to the familiarity/understanding most people feel as the poems depiction of 'ordinary-life' situations. Her poems generally revolve around her parents, children, friends, and romantic relationships which are highly relatable to any common reader which I think was an effective way of drawing the audience in.

Tuesday 12 April 2011

Responce to poem "Sympathy" by Paul Lawrance Dunbar

"A Caged Bird Dreams" T-shirt by Youthana Yuos The poet has chosen his words to create a vivid image of the caged wounded bird that looks upon the free beutiful world and longs to be part of it. The poem makes me sympathises with the bird and try and relate the birds situations to a Black American at the time when racism had "caged" the Black Americans. The poem made me realize how much of a pain it can be to be a victom of racism. The little this we do like name calling and steriopyping someone realy can turn out to become something more serious. I certainly do not want to become the "bars" of someones "cage" that stops them from feeling free to be themselves.  

Saturday 2 April 2011

My Opinon on the Racism towards Black Men


I dont know how people thought it was right to do those things to
a human being... wern't thet disturbed when they saw the hangings
of people on the trees? or when they burnt down peoples houses?
Im sure they wouldnt do that to their dogs so why were they doing
those things to a human being? And to think they called themselves
christians makes me even more sad and angry that they could have
done that to people. I guess this shows us that we realy shouldn't
dislike or alienate people based on our prejudice towards them.
It should never ever happen again.

The Life for Black People in 1800~1990


Life was cruel  for the black African people. Many white men were racist
and discriminative towards them, especially in Southern America. The white
men thought they were superior towards the black men and labeled them as
stuped, uneducated, aggressive, and sexual. Due to this racisim the black
men were treated unfairly and seen as unequal in a country which was built
on equality. Blacks got different treatment; they were put in diffent schools,
houses, buses, hospitals, and cemeteries from whites. The worst case was
that they were killed/abused by the ku klux klan ( a clan caln that acted
violently towards the blacks). Some blacks were lynched if they looked at
white women and white and black people couldnt marry due to white people
fearing a mongrel race.